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5 Simple Ways You Can Vibrate Higher For Weight Loss

January 10, 2019

The journey to weight loss is sacred

The question I get the most when people see my weight loss transformation is, “how do I begin losing weight?” or my particular favorite “where did you start?”

I love these questions, but it’s difficult to answer without being very cautious with my response. The journey for each individual is a sacred one. What might work for me may not work for you. How you achieve physical fitness may look different from the way that I was able to. 

But, even with those truths, there are some universal principles to losing weight. There are specific mindset shifts that need to happen before you can begin to lose weight naturally.

It’s Not A Race, Treat It Like A Marathon

A race is fast. You take off and before you know it you and your opponents are crossing that finish line. You’ll barely remember how you got from the start to the finish. It’s over just that quick. If you had to run at that pace for let’s say the duration of 5-10 miles, it’s likely that you’d lose steam and either have to slow down or stop completely. 

Weight loss for people who have a lot of weight to lose is not a race, it’s a marathon.

For those of us that have double and triple digits to shed, it’s difficult to sustain the pace of a marathon when you’re moving faster than your body & mind has been trained for. Get me? Let me clarify. 

If it’s your first time running a marathon and you aren’t already someone who does a lot of long game running, taking off extremely fast will inevitably work against you. You’ll tire quickly & eventually slow all the way down & most likely you’ll quit altogether. 

If you head into losing weight the mindset that I am in this for the long game, and I do not need to race to my finish line (goal weight) it’s more likely that you’ll choose healthier and sustainable methods to achieve weight loss. 

Two things I’ve learned not to do: 1. jump into the journey head first, going cold turkey on all the foods I’ve loved for decades & 2. join a gym memberships I’m never ever going to use. 

Here is why:

Deprivation never worked for me. I’d deprive myself of the things I craved for a few days then I’d lose control and go on a binge and have to start over.

Total workout exhaustion never worked either. Doing a vigorous workout early into my journey just made me dread having to workout the next day. Dread fostered a mental environment for fear, fear turned into procrastination which lead way to excuses and then I never went back for day 2, or 3 or 8. 

Those two things above is the precise reason why you will never ever stay consistent. You’re hanging your hat farther than you can reach it babygirl. 

Build up some consistency before you try to somersault into an overly restrictive diet & far too strenuous workout in the gym. 

Start slow. Would you go 90 MPH on a motorcycle if it was your fist time being on one? Hell no. Don’t do that shit with losing weight either. One last thing on this: spring must come. As long as you’re breathing still, six months from now won’t go any faster or slower, it’ll just come. Imagine if you just went into the journey with the mindset of staying consistent rather than getting your results super fast. 

 

Gather Your Data | Know Yourself

STOP! trying to be like the fit ladies on Instagram and Youtube.

You are NOT them.

You are NOT up to their physical strength.

You are NOT ready to do what they do.

Understand that this is YOUR journey and you will need to figure out what works for YOU.

Don’t force their regimen into your life if it doesn’t fit. Results are results and it doesn’t matter how quick or slow you’ve achieved it. It’s your journey, get there at a pace that is most comfortable to you.

The data you’ve gathered over many years of weight loss failure/success is what you will use to keep you consistent.

My data (past failures) have taught me that putting something unobtainable (know yourself; for example GYM when I know I cannot get there due to my schedule) on my to-do list 1. delays my progress 2. gives me a “valid excuse” to not commit to my goals 3. makes me feel bad about myself when I do not show up for myself.

Know your strengths, know your self sabotage behaviors, know your triggers!

Accept Defeat and Begin Again

The biggest problem for me is that i get totally bummed after I’ve “failed.” I’ll have a great week and then the weekend comes along and i can’t resist a pizza or two and a cheat meal turns into a binge weekend and then things get ugly. I end up losing hope and continue stuffing my face with food that makes me feel good. Before you know it,it’s been three months since my last weight loss attempt.

This is not the way ladies. if you slip up and enjoy a pizza, bnge for the weekend, fuck all of that and keep it going. Get right back to the park or gym, get back to juicing or eating clean.

Forgive yourself for that mistake, gather your data and keep it moving. Don’t fall into the trap of feeling sorry for yourself, beating yourself up for human mistakes, accept your humanity and keep it going!

Shift your FOCUS, immediately.

Weight loss is just as mental as as it is physical. I’d even say it is MORE MENTAL than anything else. Losing weight will require an immense amount of mental stamina. You have to be willing to FOCUS on your goals.

This will require you to resist. How do you resist? How does a pizza lover resist enjoying a slice of pizza when the office staff treats you and all your co-workers for lunch? Focus. Your brain will go on a tangent. The only thing you will be able to focus on is, how good that slice of pizza looks and possibly how GOOD eating that pizza will make you feel.

Your focus is wrong. Focus or think really hard on your goals, and think of nothing else.

Do not let any other thought into your mind. For the most part, don’t give the office party too much thought. Acknowledge the presence of it, then move on, do something else. Step outside, allow all of it to be eaten but don’t spend to much time thinking about it.

This kind of focus takes practice but once you do it one time, you’ll be better equipped for a second time.


November 27, 2017 was a Monday and the very end of the month. I started anyway. Stop waiting for the first of the month, don’t wait for a Monday, quit planning and hoping and wishing and start doing.

You will never ever find the perfect time to start. It does not exist. You need nothing else but everything you are already equipped with to begin.

If you want to lose weight, literally take the very first step right now!

Edit June 22, 2018 Its been six months since I wrote this post and have lost a total of 60LBS. I currently weigh 216LBS. 

 

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I'm a mom to three boys, a wife to my best-friend of 13 years. I've been writing my feelings since I was able to hold a pencil & force my daddy to buy me endless composition notebooks. I write, I vlog & create wellness, weight release, & content.

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I started over 5 weeks ago.
And one thing starting over repeatedly has taught me, is that I do not like starting over repeatedly, so these last 5 weeks, I keep showing up.

I show up when I don’t feel like it.
I show up when I don’t have motivation.
I show up tired.
I show up sleepy, exhausted & overwhelmed.
I show up unworthy. 
I show up after a binge, I keep showing up.

Because, i love the way I feel, when I keep promises to myself. 

Every single day is not a perfect start. But every single day, I start. I think this is the key to weight release because we tried it the other way too many times to count.

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I started over 5 weeks ago. And one thing starting over repeatedly has taught me, is that I do not like starting over repeatedly, so these last 5 weeks, I keep showing up. I show up when I don’t feel like it. I show up when I don’t have motivation. I show up tired. I show up sleepy, exhausted & overwhelmed. I show up unworthy. I show up after a binge, I keep showing up. Because, i love the way I feel, when I keep promises to myself. Every single day is not a perfect start. But every single day, I start. I think this is the key to weight release because we tried it the other way too many times to count. 💕 new weight loss vlog, link in bio — start your shit eBook $9 link in bio.
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I’ve spent the last two years denying my strength. I faced each and every day not knowing what symptoms would present, yet—I got up and tackled the day. I had no choice. 

With 3 little people depending on me, I had no choice but to choose strength. Some days, I fell short and barely made it but I had faith that things would get better. 

And they did.
I found a treatment that worked. A treatment that gave me some semblance of my life and sanity back and it’s been full speed ever since. 

Because when I could not. When the ability to live free, healthy with no limits was taken from me, it was the little shit that I used to take for granted that I wanted to do the most. Like go to the gym, sweat and persevere through the pain.

You can survive anything. 
Go again. Restart. Have the courage to keep going and you are already on your way. 

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I’ve spent the last two years denying my strength. I faced each and every day not knowing what symptoms would present, yet—I got up and tackled the day. I had no choice. With 3 little people depending on me, I had no choice but to choose strength. Some days, I fell short and barely made it but I had faith that things would get better. And they did. I found a treatment that worked. A treatment that gave me some semblance of my life and sanity back and it’s been full speed ever since. Because when I could not. When the ability to live free, healthy with no limits was taken from me, it was the little shit that I used to take for granted that I wanted to do the most. Like go to the gym, sweat and persevere through the pain. You can survive anything. Go again. Restart. Have the courage to keep going and you are already on your way. #blackweightlosssuccess #afrogirlfitness
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This morning started rough. 
Tempers were high in my house (mom of boys) and I needed to get myself out of the house and to Starbucks to finish editing a vlog (live Monday, July 25). But of course my eldest tagged along. 

At lunch, I was salivating over my sons wing stop 🤤, but I’m completely gluten free. This means that I spend most of my time out with people who are not gluten free and I basically watch them eat all the good shit, I cannot have anymore. 🥹

🚨 Gluten free was hard af at first. And I used to give in quite regularly, but being symptomatic vs momentary pleasure from some shit I know will make me feel unwell 🤮 —choice became easier... It is incredible how I can sit in a room full of people eating gluten everything and be absolutely OK with options that are safe—FOR ME. Months ago, doing that exact thing was unthinkable, unbearable even. 

But when I find a local gluten free spot, they get a customer for life. 🫶🏽 Best gluten free pizza 🍕, EVER. 

We finished the night with roller skating, 🪩🛼 which doubled as my workout for the day….and I feel the burn in my glutes. I’m considering buy roller blades… 🤔 

I am excited for the week ahead. Workout at 6am, so I am off to bed. 🥱 💤 

How did you spend your Sunday? ☀️ 😊
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This morning started rough. Tempers were high in my house (mom of boys) and I needed to get myself out of the house and to Starbucks to finish editing a vlog (live Monday, July 25). But of course my eldest tagged along. At lunch, I was salivating over my sons wing stop 🤤, but I’m completely gluten free. This means that I spend most of my time out with people who are not gluten free and I basically watch them eat all the good shit, I cannot have anymore. 🥹 🚨 Gluten free was hard af at first. And I used to give in quite regularly, but being symptomatic vs momentary pleasure from some shit I know will make me feel unwell 🤮 —choice became easier... It is incredible how I can sit in a room full of people eating gluten everything and be absolutely OK with options that are safe—FOR ME. Months ago, doing that exact thing was unthinkable, unbearable even. But when I find a local gluten free spot, they get a customer for life. 🫶🏽 Best gluten free pizza 🍕, EVER. We finished the night with roller skating, 🪩🛼 which doubled as my workout for the day….and I feel the burn in my glutes. I’m considering buy roller blades… 🤔 I am excited for the week ahead. Workout at 6am, so I am off to bed. 🥱 💤 How did you spend your Sunday? ☀️ 😊
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